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Location: MA
Underwear Style: Boxer Briefs
Sexual Orientation: Asexual
Do you receive or give wedgies?: Receive
Sex: Male
I'm a submissive masochist and I think the main reason I have a wedgie kink is because it combines pain and bondage, which are both aspects of BDSM I enjoy. However, I don't have any interest in humiliation play. I like the idea of my dom causing me pain as a way of giving us both pleasure. If I felt they were trying to belittle me, then I wouldn't enjoy it. I would only want to receive a wedgie from myself or from a partner who I trusted to respect my boundaries.
To be totally clear, I don't have any issue with consenting adults engaging in humiliation play or bullying role plays or anything like that--I'm not here to kink shame. It's just not how I personally enjoy wedgies. So I was wondering: anyone else have a wedgie kink that has nothing to do with humiliation/bullying role play?
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Location: California
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*raises hand*
I just like how it feels when my undies go up my butt. I'm really not into humiliation stuff.
Personally reading these two responses makes me kinda happy, I love to wedgie nerds but I don't really like demeaning them. To be honest I'd love to caress a receivers body while they are getting a wedgie and let them know how cute they are.
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Location: Baltimore
Underwear Style: Briefs
Sexual Orientation: Gay
Do you receive or give wedgies?: Both
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I've definitely gotten more comfortable and more into incorporating bullying as time has gone on, But getting to just swap wedgies with a switch friend under no guise that we're not just doing it because we both enjoy it can be a nice break sometimes haha. Ultimately I like it when guys are verbal, and being verbal, and the bullying is just a medium for that. I think the acting that happens in a bullying scene helps people loosen up a bit. But yes. one of the hottest encounters I've had was very direct, without the *theater* of a bullying kink. Just "may i" "do you like" "could you please" "harder than that" while we touched eachother in the ways we both liked.
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Location: Minnesota
Underwear Style: Tighty Whities
Sexual Orientation: Gay
Do you receive or give wedgies?: Receive
Sex: Male
Im not a super big fan of humiliation either, but getting a wedgie just is fun X3 some minor bullying or humiliation can be fine for me
Likes: Atomic(can almost do it, but not quite yet), Dangling (and hopefully hanging one day
), shoulder wedgies, most others too
Dislikes: Messy, sometimes squeaky clean, public (these 3 are ok in RP), pee, scat, blood.
Short description: 24 y/o male, 6'1", and sorta skinny
