Embarrassment for self wedgies

[Brief Encounters]

Hey all. Over time I've gotten pretty good at giving myself wedgies. I've got a good sense of what feels kinda nice and what feels super uncomfortable to me but something's missing. The physical sensations are great but more than that, what I love about wedgies is the embarrassment that comes from another person not only exposing your underpants for all to see, but also taking control of them to make the most intimate parts of you uncomfortable. I just can't create that level of embarrassment (or really any embarrassment lately) when I'm doing it to myself. Does anyone have any advice on how to give myself that magical flustered feeling? Thanks.

P.S I don't think a self wedgie in public would do the job for me.