The classic toxicity present among any individuals in a community - who discourage creators and give fetishists a bad name. Similarly, fetish-mining: fetishists harassing creators, who aren’t wedgie-focused, to make wedgie videos. Creeping them out and bringing unwanted/negative attention to us.
And also the community’s overall concerns about illegitimacy and embarrassment about the fetish. We don’t have enough openness and people sharing who they are or public about the fetish, so we’re all afraid and that’s a problem.
And fragmentation (a key concept not often explored in community discussions) - we used to be on one site (Wedgie Girls) and now we’re on countless sites. It’s difficult to form a community when so spread out.