08-02-2023, 07:15 PM
Honestly, I still to this day get anxiety for reaching out to people to meet up. I agree with the other reply where you should try building a relationship/trust outside of the wedgie stuff before setting up a meet because it let's you realize they are people who have lives outside of the kink like you that just happen to have that kink as a common interest. What also helped me, however, was just going to a meet. It's the same with a lot of pivotal life events. You might be scared during the lead up to the event, but once you are there and start experiencing it, the anxiety begins to fade away and you begin opening yourself to enjoy the experience!