06-30-2020, 09:04 AM
Perhaps one thing to remember if this term is difficult for you is that slavery while always wrong has not always been racist. It has existed in most cultures throughout the world and only in the US was associated with race. I totally get it if the terms don’t vibe for you due to personal experience (being a black woman in the US), but for a lot of us the slave/master thing is just a nice representation of sub/dom relationships, and I don’t think race is even thought about when we use it (for me, at least, I don’t associate the term with race when I’m using it in a kinky situation. Idk of that maybe helps you understand a little better. Just trying to share my thoughts on why I like the words slave/master and am ok with them.